Wrong login email address on file; can not verify

I have had an account with you for about 1 month and today I needed to change my primary email address, but I typed the wrong email and no longer have access to the email address that I set up as the primary. I already deleted the old primary email address and can not verify the new one. The email address you have on file is hedwigcc7@charmingcharlie.com but the one I meant to use was hedwigcc7@aol.com.
How do I long in? I need to send invitations for an event and "my crowd" is my list.