I want Sandy

I have subscribed to the ical feed so Sandy's calendar will be sent to my Google Calendar, but when I add items, they are not shown on my Google Calendar and I do not receive reminders from Google regularly. I can unsubscribe and resubscribe and that seems to reset the reminders, but that's a pain.

Is there a way I can just send a refresh to Google Calendar?

They don't seem to be able to figure it out on their end. Is there a way Sandy can figure it out on her end so she can either send an automatic refresh every 10 or 15 minutes, or at least a manual option where we can just click on something and it will automatically send a fresh ical feed to update Google Calendar?

I want to get Sandy to send my shopping list to my phone. I use twitter to communicate with sandy on the mobile, since she won't direct SMS overseas (I'm in NZ). When I text her with "l grocery list" she sends back, "I found this: grocery list," but she does not send the contents of the list! How do I get her to send the list contents?

I want to use Jott to add a "to-do" item, but when I say "tag with to-do", Jott changes it to "tag with To Do" and Sandy interprets it as "@to @do"

The way I am used to organizing things is that I set my assignments as all day events on a calender the day that they are due. If I were to use Sandy, I would need to know about my assignments with enough time to do them.

I want to be able to add, edit, and delete to dos/events from iCal or Mail, but the calendar provided is read only. Is there something I'm missing, or this just isn't available?

Can any of the devs comment on this? Will there be any more development of stikkit or will it just stay as it is? Is there any chance of it being taken down? I would just like some more info on stikkit's development path. Thanks.