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I am very exhausted from dealing with an agency that should be there to assist divorced parents with issues in relation to their rights and their children's rights. I get things in the mail almost monthly, that I have no clue why they are being sent. I can't read them because they are written in a format that really makes no sense. I call for explanation and always get someone on the phone who really has no clue. When I have a question on another matter and I call, they never get me an answer. I feel like I run in circles trying to just know what is going on in my child support case. I finally got a supervisor's name so I bypass the reps they have answering their phones. The last time I called her, she didn't return my call for days. When she finally did call, she claimed she had left me several messages.

I think whoever is over this at state level, needs to get involved and make the process of being divorced with children, not such a daily hassle. I am currently filing a contempt charge and they send you paperwork which is also written in a different language. You do what you think it is asking, and then it gets mailed back to you correcting what you did wrong. I am on my 3rd revision. No personal contact on this matter, no help from the agency, just mail it back w/ notes for me to correct things. It is sad that a parent has to do this, just to get the court to address the wrong doings of the other parent.

I advise anyone who is thinking of divorce and has children, to think twice. The experience in protecting your rights on your own might change your mind.