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    Laura Hernandez reported a problem in Twitter on August 16, 2009 06:55:

    Laura Hernandez
    Abusive User searches and blocks Liberals to shut down accounts
    If profile created for purpose of instigating the blocking of multiple people just to get their accounts suspended because user and followers oppose them politically/socially, would you consider that abusive? That is what @Trollanotor is doing, with bio of "Troll Blocker" stating "Don't knock 'em, block 'em! Send us your Liberal trolls for elimination #TCOT"
    Doesn't this violate spirit of Twitter rules, not to mention 1st Amendment?
  • idea

    Laura Hernandez replied on July 09, 2009 22:27 to the idea "Contempt for Disabled from Chelsea's roundtable guest!" in E! Online:

    Laura Hernandez
    Okay, "Newsflash", I said we, overweight people ARE looked down upon in public, did you not read this clearly? I also said HER fat humor, because unlike most, Chelsea refers to chunkiness in a positive way, fat babies are celebrated as adorable, and her reference to "Dance you ass off" was that the problem with the show is that it's point is to change it's participants instead of showcasing how great they can "get down" and don't need to be changed. Her references always seem to celebrate folks of the more fleshy-kind, not put us down. Chuy is a nugget, we call my youngest daughter, mentioned before, our dumpling. If size as a distinguishing characteristic is described with a positive attitude, as a compliment, as Chelsea does, it's not hurtful, anymore than my being told I have beautiful red hair. That is "Playfully celebrating differences", keyword CELEBRATING, not disparaging! Sheesh! Your entire first paragraph repeated MY argument, not sure why you think it's telling me something I hadn't already JUST SAID MYSELF. My including personal info was to show that weight ISN'T a symptom of just being a pig. Maybe the scooter-using angle caused confusion, but the ok-to-be-mocked minority wasn't people in scooters, who come in all sizes, but we fat people, regardless of mobility! That's also why I included the experiences of my 8 yr-old, and my childhood, not as people considered disabled and deserving of sympathy, admiration, and/or respect, but as fat people. She isn't in a scooter, and neither was I then. A skinny person in a scooter/wheelchair isn't automatically assumed to be responsible for their impairment, but a fat person is. It's not the scooter that triggers the prejudice, it's the fatness! "Hurtful stereotypes and outright lies" I mentioned previously are obviously against fat people, don't know how you could have missed that. When I went to my son's school, one of the other kids was whispering, and another came up and told me "She said you're fat!" I responded, well, yeah, I am fat, people come in all shapes and sizes. I'm also very pale, my son is very tan with Hispanic features, of his friends sitting with us, one was black, another was pale like me with red hair and green eyes, there were several different shades and types of hair, etc. I told them all this and that there is nothing wrong with noticing differences among people, it's when judgements of positive or negative personality and character are assigned to those physical variations that causes the problem. I shouldn't accept fat-prejudice anymore than my oldest daughter should feel bad for having blonde hair. But just as my son-in-law knows he doesn't deserve racism against him for being black, it's still upsetting when it happens, and he also avoids situations where it's likely when possible and practical. Hopefully, I have made my point more clear, which is definately NOT "way off base."
  • idea

    Laura Hernandez shared an idea in E! Online on July 07, 2009 10:35:

    Laura Hernandez
    Contempt for Disabled from Chelsea's roundtable guest!
    Let me say first I love Chelsea's show, watch every night, usually with my family, and we're pretty twisted, so I've never been offended. My husband is Mexican, so we've enjoyed following Chuy's saga to citizenship. But tonight, July 6th, we were laughing along about lady in powerscooter going to White Castle drive-thru when the chick on the roundtable, don't remember name, made a crack about how people who use them weren't really disabled, just too fat and lazy to walk, and therefore shouldn't even be allowed to eat there or any fast food place. My son looked at me stunned at this cruel and bigoted statement, unchallenged on the show, because I am disabled and have to use those stupid scooters at large stores and always feel embarrassed because I'm big, due to complications and meds related to my disability, and am aware there are ignorant people looking down at me in disgust with her attitude. I usually have my husband go to the store to avoid the humiliation I feel, now apparently justified. What was so shocking and upsetting is that Chelsea's always seemed to speak out against discrimination and ignorance, and I have no problem with her fat humor, loved "Dance your Ass Off" clip and "Fat Baby" segments for example. Playfully celebrating differences and poking fun with cutting sarcasm and raw wit is why I love the show, but this was mean and promotes hurtful stereotypes and outright lies against people like me who have hard enough time asserting we even have the right to go out in public, apparently. No other minority group could have been substituted for not having the right to patronize a public business unless statement was obviously sarcastic and real target of quip was to make other side sound like idiots and/or jerks for discriminating. Being disabled is already a struggle without knowing we're being judged and held in contempt by people like that chick who spread and reinforce myths that it's our fault, and therefore we should be scorned, ridiculed and intimidated. My youngest daughter, 8, has inherited my genetic condition, and unlike her 2 older siblings, has become very overweight, gaining almost 30 pounds (on a tiny 6yr old) within a few months until her diagnosis was confirmed and she was put on medication. She's become self-conscious because of teasing from school fostered by the very bigotry promoted by those inaccurate and cruel roundtable comments. I was bullied and teased horribly in school and had hoped my kids would avoid it, but not as long as people allow it to continue. I know this is a comedy show, but I can't believe Chelsea let this go. She's called out other shows and people for inaccurately negative and/or exploitive representations of oppressed minorities. There really needs to be some kind of acknowledgement that this roundtable statement was not cool.