Willy Wonka's dashboard

I have been looking for a site to use as a membership center to control all of my members joining my site. My socialgo Network is listed in my subdomain manager to use my links instead of socialgo links. I purchased my domain because I had a successful site running on the Ning Network. I had over 1900 members. When Ning announced that networks will be shut down no matter what the owners do, I lost more than 3/4th of my members because I was told by Ning that if I abide by their rules my site wouldn't be shut down. I adibed by their rules to remove all adult themed images, titles, and links and my site was still shut down. I joined Socialgo because it was stated that everything would be completely different than Ning. You even gave owners the option of using their own domains. If you would have simply said up front that you may charge in the future, I would at least had time to look for a replacement or been ready to change along with Socialgo. My question is, now that my network is connected to my domain, the only thing linking members back to socialgo is a link and the logo, will my site be shut down? If it is, what exactly do I need to change to keep my members and all my content because my video section is youtube approved. The pictures I can take off the network. The blogs I can move to my site, other than that, what is necessary to keep my site active with socialgo? My network is only used as a membership database but has one link to an adult site. Does that make my site adult themed?