Ok, I've cancelled the shamel@ account, so we can ignore that one from here on in. I've updated your site's record so it has the correct, up to date feed and the site URL, rather than just showing the feed URL. That usually does the trick for claiming.
When you have a moment, can you try logging in to Connect (
https://connect.postrank.com/login) with the shamel67@ email address and see if you can complete verification now? If you still have issues, please let me know.
Keeping account deletions as an administrative function was a decision we made early on, since there's no real way to get data back if someone deletes it by accident or wasn't intending to delete everything. If we got more requests/requirements to remove accounts, we would look at making it more accessible, but it really doesn't come up very often.