Why is my site running so Slow...?

Ok, there are two separate issues here.

Sengorel, can you give me the URL of your site so I can see what the problem might be, if you don't want to divulge the URL publically, message me with the URL on the owners network (http://owners.socialgo.com), my username there is Mike Martin.

Mopeder, which videos are you talking about, can you do the same and send me the URLs. If the video is hosted at Youtube/Vimeo/Dailymotion then it is something we can't control. If you are talking about a video hosted with us, then our downloads are progressive and not streaming and therefore it leads me to believe that the problem would be to do with the speed of your internet connection.

Even if you're on DSL, if you're downloading another file at the same time as watching a video or your Internet Provider isn't giving you the bandwidth you need in order to watch a video on SocialGO.

If you are watching a video that is hosted and uploaded to SocialGO, and want an uninterrupted viewing experience, I suggest waiting for the gray progress bar to get to the end before pressing play.

Yeah I'm having similar issues. It takes me like 3 or for 4 uploads to upload 1 of the same video. Like I'd upload a video and wait for it to show up but either never shows in the video tap or when it does, it doesn't play.

After a few times of uploading the same video more than twice it will show up and play. I have an adult network from ning that I'm trying to switch over to SG since Ning doomed themselves with adult content. But I have like 300 videos on ning that I want to bring over to SG, but it's incredibly difficult just to get one video uploaded and playing correct on SG.

I wonder if the SG network will be able to provide the same speeds as I had with Ning. Like on Ning the pages, videos, pictures loads fast even when I had like 40 members online at the same time.

BTW I'm loving the video chat feature. That's what sold me on moving here from Ning.