How can I merge or dedupe Firstname Lastname and Lastname, Firstname?

Hi guys

I'm not sure how they got there, but I have a whole load of duplicate contacts in my Soocial contacts and in my Gmail contacts (and they have now synced accross into Outlook as well)

A few of the duplicates were removed by running the dedupe in your webapp, but I still have many duplicates which appear twice in this format:

Lastname, Firstname
and
Firstname Lastname

When I try and manually merge these 2 contacts in the soocial webapp, I get the message "Not Mergeable". So is there any way to to merge or dedupe these contacts *without* first manually editing the Firstname and Lastname fields?

Thanks a lot - even as a beta, Soocial is already a great service, I'm just getting a little confused trying to work out how to remove these dupes without manually changing anything.