How can I make my RSS look like my Graphics dept wants it w/in Carousel?

My RSS feed has some data in ways that I wouldn't really want to show it. How can I make it look the way my Graphics team wants it to.

For example, in my RSS feed, I want a bold header with the day's date, and then a list of today's events. Then I want the next day's date as a bold header and the list of events below. I don't know how to make this display as so without either--not having the date at all (which only works if I ONLY do today's events) or having the date as part of each event line item (looks bad!).

Additionally, my date in the RSS is 3/2/2008 and I want it to show as March 2, 2008. Is there date formating ability?

I'm sure I'm not the first to run into this--help!
Attaching what I want it to look like.

Thanks (yes, I'm a new user)
Liz

My feed URL: http://www.artic.edu/aic/calendar/rss...