Poll Suggestion: Most Attractive Quality in a Man

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In your opinion, which of these seven qualities do women (or men attracted to men) like, seek or admire the most?

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15yearsIMDber aka ElMo

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What about the "bad boy"?
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15yearsIMDber aka ElMo

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Lol, that's why I said "quality" :)
Seriously, I think the "bad boy" is compatible with the 'mystery' option, also if you refer to the rebellious guy, I guess it fits either the 'courage' or 'strength' option.
I didn't want to make it a list of archetypes: the bad boy, the dandy, the poet, the wounded soul, the macho guy etc. but really try to think of a few simple and yet undeniable qualities and question which one is the most attractive.
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All of them are very important, but looks do come first.  If I am not remotely attracted to someone, there's no point in even getting started and finding out if they are kind/brave/etc.  :)  But if I had to pick another, it's kindness.
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Oh, I remember this one. :)

Typo in #3: 'Moral' strength
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You forgot the most important one.

$$$MONEY$$$
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Elmo, the question mark in front of Mystery may seem as a mistake for users of some countries, at least in Spanish speaking countries, there's an opening question mark ¿ that goes in that place, maybe you want to use it.
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The question mark was just meant to illustrate the "mystery", nothing else.
I appreciate your insights but since the text is in English, I'm sure Spanish-speaking users will put the 'writing' in the context of its specific language, that said, I'll use the mark :) not in the place you'd expect
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Paok-Kilkis

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Amazing poll, very original, I realy like these kind of polls. One of the best you have done! Great job!
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Paok-Kilkis

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My vote: KINDNESS 
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15yearsIMDber aka ElMo

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Thanks Paok for these kind, encouraging words. I'm reviving some old suggestions, sometimes i don't even remember I suggested them lol
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Paok-Kilkis

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I know, it happens to me too. Once I made a suggestion which I had make before and didn't remember it.
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Maybe it falls under Courage but I think it's something like Self-Confidence.
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i think self-confidence is the consequence of being blessed with many or a few of these traits, one can be self-confident because he feels brave, beautiful, strong or funny... I don't believe in gratuitous self-confidence, you've got to "make your bones" on a particular field to be confident about your asset, even someone beautiful has to learn a few things about the art of seduction.
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Man: Kindness is underestimated same as empathy. The King of Comedy got my vote. :D
ElMO, I would really like to see a poll for women about the same issues going online.
Is there something planed? Please do!
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Not sure I'd qualify as a good judge but if I collect enough objective material and extract 7  qualities, I'll make a Part II, that's a promise