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Good morning/afternoon.
I complained about an extremely vile person, who had
caused several people to leave IMDb completely. After getting a PM from one saying she
couldn't take the bullying and stalking anymore and that she had to leave, I decided to complain. I have ZERO time for people who bully and belittle others and you can see them literally breaking them down, just to please themselves. It's NOT right!
I expected this person would retaliate by reporting me, even though I am not on her threads, but I am extremely frustrated at having the Terms & Conditions still up when I go to post.
As a member of 11 years, until I posted in "their" threads, I'd NEVER had a single report against me! However, since I joined that thread, I've had numerous. When I asked why they report everyone that disagrees with them, "because I can and I don't like you!" Now, what can you say/do to that?! So, I deleted the few messages I had on those threads, not many, put the person on ignore and have not been back since!!
I mostly just contribute data now, as people are just trouble and I have NO RECOURSE!
I've accumulated quite a few badges and lists and I do NOT want this person to interfere with any of this 'just because they can and they don't like me'! If you were to look at the 2 or 3 threads they've flooded (every post is at least a 1/4 of a page long and it is one after the other after the other), how much they bully every single person that disagrees with them, you'd be surprised they still have an IMDb account!! It's atrocious. Personally, I think the two/three of the worst threads should be entirely deleted, they're off-topic, serve no purpose, are full of ranting and raving, definitely breaching Terms & Conditions, and to be honest, they don't reflect well on IMDb. It's really that bad!
Links to three of the worst threads:
1. http://www.imdb.com/name/nm1089991/board/nest/245802965?p=1
2. http://www.imdb.com/name/nm1089991/board/nest/249722861?p=1
3. http://www.imdb.com/name/nm1089991/board/nest/248831659?p=1
I'm no longer involved, but given I'm the one that reported them, they're not happy about it and, knowing them, they're probably laying low and 'innocent'. As for, 'I must have said something', no I didn't, I disagreed with them, but nothing that breached the terms and conditions. Could it be that my complaint is being looked into and so I get the Terms & Conditions message also?
Either way, I'm fed up with it all and I'm disappointed nice people have deleted their IMDb accounts because of one ring leader. Some people are more fragile and can't take the non-stop bullying and barrage of ranting from others.
I know you won't discuss what you do, but I would greatly appreciate it, if you could please look into this for me.
Thank you for your time.
I complained about an extremely vile person, who had
caused several people to leave IMDb completely. After getting a PM from one saying she
couldn't take the bullying and stalking anymore and that she had to leave, I decided to complain. I have ZERO time for people who bully and belittle others and you can see them literally breaking them down, just to please themselves. It's NOT right!
I expected this person would retaliate by reporting me, even though I am not on her threads, but I am extremely frustrated at having the Terms & Conditions still up when I go to post.
As a member of 11 years, until I posted in "their" threads, I'd NEVER had a single report against me! However, since I joined that thread, I've had numerous. When I asked why they report everyone that disagrees with them, "because I can and I don't like you!" Now, what can you say/do to that?! So, I deleted the few messages I had on those threads, not many, put the person on ignore and have not been back since!!
I mostly just contribute data now, as people are just trouble and I have NO RECOURSE!
I've accumulated quite a few badges and lists and I do NOT want this person to interfere with any of this 'just because they can and they don't like me'! If you were to look at the 2 or 3 threads they've flooded (every post is at least a 1/4 of a page long and it is one after the other after the other), how much they bully every single person that disagrees with them, you'd be surprised they still have an IMDb account!! It's atrocious. Personally, I think the two/three of the worst threads should be entirely deleted, they're off-topic, serve no purpose, are full of ranting and raving, definitely breaching Terms & Conditions, and to be honest, they don't reflect well on IMDb. It's really that bad!
Links to three of the worst threads:
1. http://www.imdb.com/name/nm1089991/board/nest/245802965?p=1
2. http://www.imdb.com/name/nm1089991/board/nest/249722861?p=1
3. http://www.imdb.com/name/nm1089991/board/nest/248831659?p=1
I'm no longer involved, but given I'm the one that reported them, they're not happy about it and, knowing them, they're probably laying low and 'innocent'. As for, 'I must have said something', no I didn't, I disagreed with them, but nothing that breached the terms and conditions. Could it be that my complaint is being looked into and so I get the Terms & Conditions message also?
Either way, I'm fed up with it all and I'm disappointed nice people have deleted their IMDb accounts because of one ring leader. Some people are more fragile and can't take the non-stop bullying and barrage of ranting from others.
I know you won't discuss what you do, but I would greatly appreciate it, if you could please look into this for me.
Thank you for your time.

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bluesmanSF, Champion
Just curious...how would someone who has been reported know it was you who filed the report if you didn't say so? The system is anonymous and he'd have no other way of knowing.
The warning you receive means someone has filed a report of abuse that has not been reviewed yet or you've been overusing or abusing the report system (though I am not certain of the second part-they'd be more likely to just permanently disable your report abuse privilege-which is done silently and cannot/will not be reversed). I'd encourage you, if you are reporting the person, to do it once, use ignore, then forget the person and move on.
If other users are so fragile they cannot stand to be on the boards, leaving is probably in their best interest. Otherwise they should also be using ignore and not worrying about it. You cannot be "bullied" by someone you never see nor hear.
I'd also recommend you don't participate in a discussion by disagreeing with an abusive user, then reporting him. It can be difficult to see who is baiting/trolling whom and they might just zap both of you. So ignore list can benefit you by removing the temptation to respond, which can get you the same account sanctions as the other person.
I understand your frustrations and concern for other users but really, do you want to spend even a minute of your time dealing with internet trolls? I know I don't...(and can't imagine staff wants to either).
Good luck, though!